Ok, I think there are a number of things at play here. Firstly, it's possible that we may have different understanding of what fascism is. To my mind it is charactarised by:
- Authoritarianism and opposition to democratic processes
- Emphasis on managed capitalism
- Corporatism, as in the Italian model
- Political violence - particularly, but not exclusively, against opponents
- Populism, by which I mean the positioning of the leader as having the unique link to the people
- Strong role for the state in determining, and enforcing, political and social norms
- Suppression of opposing voices and control of the media.
FWIW I think that Donald Trump showed a number of these traits, but for me it was the refusal to accept the democratic process and the use of violence to secure that was fascistic behavior.
My concern is that simply labeling right wing policies as fascism, it diminishes the term and, paradoxically, makes us more inured to when it comes along. An example of what I think is hyperbolic use of the term was around the named person legislation. Some opponents labled it as fascistic as it gave the state an enhanced (and unclear) role in relation to children. This is was argued represented the state determining and enforcing political norms and imposing them on children. My view FWIW is that it was well meaning legislation that collapsed under the weight of its own contradicions. While a link could be drawn to some fascist tenets, I don't see an arguable case that it was.
Do I think the Tories are right wing. Yup. Do I agree with their policies on refugees - no. But do I think they will promote a violent insurrection to stop them being emptied from power? No. I also think that they are not attracted to the managed capitalism that is a charactaristic of fascism. They are much to free market for that.
Turning to your point about how fascism is marshaled an attack in the trans debate, here's some examples:
https://xtramagazine.com/power/far-r...fascist-220810
https://ginnymcqueen.com/terfs-are-nazi-****/
https://www.womenarehuman.com/upcomi...y-councillors/
https://www.transadvocate.com/fascis...ed_n_52458.htm
https://twitter.com/pickle_bee/statu...90171765530624