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Sexuality is a spectrum. However that doesn't mean that people simply move around it. It's not that people's sexuality changes over time. It's that it can take time for a person to discover what their true sexuality actually is. A person can spend years in a straight relationship for example, only to discover that they are actually gay. Does that mean that they were straight up to that point and just suddenly decided they were going to be gay from now on? I don't believe it works that way.
That implies that there is a 'true' state that someone has that, once achieved, can't be moved from. There are plenty of examples of people who have been in same sex relationships who then move on to a straight relationship. I wouldn't presume that either of these were their 'true self'.