It's a term used far too often for my liking...often by muslims who don't understand the questions that non muslims ask of their faith.

The main question I have is why can't I, as a non-believer in any faith not entertain a muslim female?

The answer is I just can't....because I'm not a muslim.

However, If a muslim male was to court a female it would be OK if she was a believer in any other sort of religion??

This is the most basic and blatant form of "non-integration" possible yet it isn't questioned by anyone.
Can anyone explain how this can happen in a so called "multi-cultural" society?..I though that meant we were all meant to mix as exuals.

I know for a fact that such issues are a crux of the problem in places like Oldham and bradford....You don't touch a muslim woman if you don't believe...or else!

Is it not time islam to grow up and accept others...regardless of belief?

This is a large part of the problem.