The tears clear my blindness.........

[Reaper]

I'm not one to share much, especially to strangers but after the last week or so I've read a lot of feelings that the 'feel good factor' is dissipating around the club. I can see folks perspective as we've lost our top scorer, not much happening with signings currently, disruptive rumours of Lennon leaving etc etc

That Scottish cup final. The final whistle blew and I cried, like many. The first person I spoke to was my wee boy Alfie (I wasnt to allowed to take him as he was only 3) he shouted 'Daddy won the cup' and sang Glory Glory down the phone. I cried some more. I took him to the parade and we got our photo with the cup.

Saturday 19th November 2016, home vs QOS. Just another game to most but THE game for me. It was Alfie's 1st and only game.

In February of this year, Alfie died suddenly. My own life has changed forever. My whole perspective has changed, forever.

I used to, like many worry and often complain about what Hibs were doing or weren't doing. They were and are a huge part of my life but looking back I think sometimes that attitude has clouded the many 'Highs' I've experienced with Hibs.

I now, no longer worry about what Hibs will give but remember what they have already given. Memories that are dearer to me than ever imaginable.

Just my take on things. Keep faith, trust the club and remember your own good times that no one can ever take away from you.

[poolman]

So many words to describe that post

But it was very poignant

[MyJo]

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I'm not one to share much, especially to strangers but after the last week or so I've read a lot of feelings that the 'feel good factor' is dissipating around the club. I can see folks perspective as we've lost our top scorer, not much happening with signings currently, disruptive rumours of Lennon leaving etc etc

That Scottish cup final. The final whistle blew and I cried, like many. The first person I spoke to was my wee boy Alfie (I wasnt to allowed to take him as he was only 3) he shouted 'Daddy won the cup' and sang Glory Glory down the phone. I cried some more. I took him to the parade and we got our photo with the cup.

Saturday 19th November 2016, home vs QOS. Just another game to most but THE game for me. It was Alfie's 1st and only game.

In February of this year, Alfie died suddenly. My own life has changed forever. My whole perspective has changed, forever.

I used to, like many worry and often complain about what Hibs were doing or weren't doing. They were and are a huge part of my life but looking back I think sometimes that attitude has clouded the many 'Highs' I've experienced with Hibs.

I now, no longer worry about what Hibs will give but remember what they have already given. Memories that are dearer to me than ever imaginable.

Just my take on things. Keep faith, trust the club and remember your own good times that no one can ever take away from you.

from one father to another i am so sorry for your loss.
I can't even imagine how difficult it must be to deal with something so tragic and i hope those beautiful memories keep you strong.

[coco mc]

Wow beautiful and so sorry so sorry for your loss and god bless Alfie rip ggth x

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I'm not one to share much, especially to strangers but after the last week or so I've read a lot of feelings that the 'feel good factor' is dissipating around the club. I can see folks perspective as we've lost our top scorer, not much happening with signings currently, disruptive rumours of Lennon leaving etc etc

That Scottish cup final. The final whistle blew and I cried, like many. The first person I spoke to was my wee boy Alfie (I wasnt to allowed to take him as he was only 3) he shouted 'Daddy won the cup' and sang Glory Glory down the phone. I cried some more. I took him to the parade and we got our photo with the cup.

Saturday 19th November 2016, home vs QOS. Just another game to most but THE game for me. It was Alfie's 1st and only game.

In February of this year, Alfie died suddenly. My own life has changed forever. My whole perspective has changed, forever.

I used to, like many worry and often complain about what Hibs were doing or weren't doing. They were and are a huge part of my life but looking back I think sometimes that attitude has clouded the many 'Highs' I've experienced with Hibs.

I now, no longer worry about what Hibs will give but remember what they have already given. Memories that are dearer to me than ever imaginable.

Just my take on things. Keep faith, trust the club and remember your own good times that no one can ever take away from you.

[OxoHibby]

Sorry for your loss. Does put it in perspective

[The Harp]

Don't really have the words to respond properly to you on the loss of Alfie. Can only imagine what you and your family are going through.
My sincere condolences to you and yours.

[Jim44]

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I'm not one to share much, especially to strangers but after the last week or so I've read a lot of feelings that the 'feel good factor' is dissipating around the club. I can see folks perspective as we've lost our top scorer, not much happening with signings currently, disruptive rumours of Lennon leaving etc etc

That Scottish cup final. The final whistle blew and I cried, like many. The first person I spoke to was my wee boy Alfie (I wasnt to allowed to take him as he was only 3) he shouted 'Daddy won the cup' and sang Glory Glory down the phone. I cried some more. I took him to the parade and we got our photo with the cup.

Saturday 19th November 2016, home vs QOS. Just another game to most but THE game for me. It was Alfie's 1st and only game.

In February of this year, Alfie died suddenly. My own life has changed forever. My whole perspective has changed, forever.

I used to, like many worry and often complain about what Hibs were doing or weren't doing. They were and are a huge part of my life but looking back I think sometimes that attitude has clouded the many 'Highs' I've experienced with Hibs.

I now, no longer worry about what Hibs will give but remember what they have already given. Memories that are dearer to me than ever imaginable.

Just my take on things. Keep faith, trust the club and remember your own good times that no one can ever take away from you.

Respect. Very thought provoking. Sorry for your tragic loss.

[Scouse Hibee]

Words fail me apart from saying so sorry for your loss and thank you for sharing with us one of your cherished memories of your beloved son.

[BH Hibs]

Thank you thank you thank you thank you. God bless pal and R.I.P wee Alfie

[EH6 Hibby]

Such a beautiful and moving post. I can't begin to imagine how hard it must have been to write. Thank you for sharing your story.

[Deansy]

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I'm not one to share much, especially to strangers but after the last week or so I've read a lot of feelings that the 'feel good factor' is dissipating around the club. I can see folks perspective as we've lost our top scorer, not much happening with signings currently, disruptive rumours of Lennon leaving etc etc

That Scottish cup final. The final whistle blew and I cried, like many. The first person I spoke to was my wee boy Alfie (I wasnt to allowed to take him as he was only 3) he shouted 'Daddy won the cup' and sang Glory Glory down the phone. I cried some more. I took him to the parade and we got our photo with the cup.

Saturday 19th November 2016, home vs QOS. Just another game to most but THE game for me. It was Alfie's 1st and only game.

In February of this year, Alfie died suddenly. My own life has changed forever. My whole perspective has changed, forever.

I used to, like many worry and often complain about what Hibs were doing or weren't doing. They were and are a huge part of my life but looking back I think sometimes that attitude has clouded the many 'Highs' I've experienced with Hibs.

I now, no longer worry about what Hibs will give but remember what they have already given. Memories that are dearer to me than ever imaginable.

Just my take on things. Keep faith, trust the club and remember your own good times that no one can ever take away from you.

I'm so sorry but I just can't find the words to say - I do, however, admire your courage, love and strength to post your story and that my heart goes out to you and your family !

[Borderhibbie76]

Puts everything into perspective mate I'm so sorry for your tragic loss...Alfie RIP and I hope all the Hibees up there are looking after you

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[hibsbollah]

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I'm not one to share much, especially to strangers but after the last week or so I've read a lot of feelings that the 'feel good factor' is dissipating around the club. I can see folks perspective as we've lost our top scorer, not much happening with signings currently, disruptive rumours of Lennon leaving etc etc

That Scottish cup final. The final whistle blew and I cried, like many. The first person I spoke to was my wee boy Alfie (I wasnt to allowed to take him as he was only 3) he shouted 'Daddy won the cup' and sang Glory Glory down the phone. I cried some more. I took him to the parade and we got our photo with the cup.

Saturday 19th November 2016, home vs QOS. Just another game to most but THE game for me. It was Alfie's 1st and only game.

In February of this year, Alfie died suddenly. My own life has changed forever. My whole perspective has changed, forever.

I used to, like many worry and often complain about what Hibs were doing or weren't doing. They were and are a huge part of my life but looking back I think sometimes that attitude has clouded the many 'Highs' I've experienced with Hibs.

I now, no longer worry about what Hibs will give but remember what they have already given. Memories that are dearer to me than ever imaginable.

Just my take on things. Keep faith, trust the club and remember your own good times that no one can ever take away from you.

Oh my goodness. Take it easy and best of luck.

[DavidDavidGray]

I'm so sorry for your loss, words can't describe the feeling you must have. RIP Alfie 💚

[lucky]

Glory Glory to wee Alfie x


When reading your post I shouted "oh no" just after the 4th paragraph. Life is so unfair. Football is game and a game we love but it's never more important that life and I can guarantee there's not a fan on here that would not swap the cup win for Alfie to live to be an old man. You have my condolences

[Bay Area Hibees]

Wonderfullly poignant post.
Thank you for reminding us what really matters.

[kaimendhibs]

So sorry. RIP Alfie. Take care, sincere condolences

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[green day]

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I'm not one to share much, especially to strangers but after the last week or so I've read a lot of feelings that the 'feel good factor' is dissipating around the club. I can see folks perspective as we've lost our top scorer, not much happening with signings currently, disruptive rumours of Lennon leaving etc etc

That Scottish cup final. The final whistle blew and I cried, like many. The first person I spoke to was my wee boy Alfie (I wasnt to allowed to take him as he was only 3) he shouted 'Daddy won the cup' and sang Glory Glory down the phone. I cried some more. I took him to the parade and we got our photo with the cup.

Saturday 19th November 2016, home vs QOS. Just another game to most but THE game for me. It was Alfie's 1st and only game.

In February of this year, Alfie died suddenly. My own life has changed forever. My whole perspective has changed, forever.

I used to, like many worry and often complain about what Hibs were doing or weren't doing. They were and are a huge part of my life but looking back I think sometimes that attitude has clouded the many 'Highs' I've experienced with Hibs.

I now, no longer worry about what Hibs will give but remember what they have already given. Memories that are dearer to me than ever imaginable.

Just my take on things. Keep faith, trust the club and remember your own good times that no one can ever take away from you.

As a dad myself, I can barely contemplate how much courage it took to post that.

[Ronniekirk]

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I'm not one to share much, especially to strangers but after the last week or so I've read a lot of feelings that the 'feel good factor' is dissipating around the club. I can see folks perspective as we've lost our top scorer, not much happening with signings currently, disruptive rumours of Lennon leaving etc etc

That Scottish cup final. The final whistle blew and I cried, like many. The first person I spoke to was my wee boy Alfie (I wasnt to allowed to take him as he was only 3) he shouted 'Daddy won the cup' and sang Glory Glory down the phone. I cried some more. I took him to the parade and we got our photo with the cup.

Saturday 19th November 2016, home vs QOS. Just another game to most but THE game for me. It was Alfie's 1st and only game.

In February of this year, Alfie died suddenly. My own life has changed forever. My whole perspective has changed, forever.

I used to, like many worry and often complain about what Hibs were doing or weren't doing. They were and are a huge part of my life but looking back I think sometimes that attitude has clouded the many 'Highs' I've experienced with Hibs.

I now, no longer worry about what Hibs will give but remember what they have already given. Memories that are dearer to me than ever imaginable.

Just my take on things. Keep faith, trust the club and remember your own good times that no one can ever take away from you.

Well you shared this moving story which cant have been easy My Heart goes out to you So true are those last words No one can take away the memories



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[18Hibee75]

So, so sorry for your loss. Lost my wife a few years back and still can't imagine how you felt/feel. It really does put things into perspective and well done for having the courage to share your story with us.

Forever we'll be singing, to the angels High above.

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[dunedinhibs]

Thank you for sharing your story mate, definitely makes you shift your perspective to the more important things in life. Much love to you and the family from one Hibee to another and I hope Hibs can bless you with many more great memories. Take care :)

[Baw187]

As a father of young children myself, I struggle to comprehend how I'd handle the loss that you have experienced. I'm so so sorry and admire your courage, honesty, and perspective to share your thoughts with us.

God bless you, your family, and of course, wee Alfie.

[McSwanky]

I have no words. So sorry for your loss. Unimaginably awful. How brave of you to post this, my heart goes out to you and your family.

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[SonOfDavidFrancey]

All the best for the future.

[FranckSuzy]

I am so sorry. RIP wee Alfie and best wishes to you and your family.

[JJP]

My heart goes out to you and your family. Thanks for telling us about your boy.

[Sammy7nil]

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I have no words. So sorry for your loss. Unimaginably awful. How brave of you to post this, my heart goes out to you and your family.

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Agree, so s for your loss tears in my eyes.

[SON OF PADDY]

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I'm not one to share much, especially to strangers but after the last week or so I've read a lot of feelings that the 'feel good factor' is dissipating around the club. I can see folks perspective as we've lost our top scorer, not much happening with signings currently, disruptive rumours of Lennon leaving etc etc

That Scottish cup final. The final whistle blew and I cried, like many. The first person I spoke to was my wee boy Alfie (I wasnt to allowed to take him as he was only 3) he shouted 'Daddy won the cup' and sang Glory Glory down the phone. I cried some more. I took him to the parade and we got our photo with the cup.

Saturday 19th November 2016, home vs QOS. Just another game to most but THE game for me. It was Alfie's 1st and only game.

In February of this year, Alfie died suddenly. My own life has changed forever. My whole perspective has changed, forever.

I used to, like many worry and often complain about what Hibs were doing or weren't doing. They were and are a huge part of my life but looking back I think sometimes that attitude has clouded the many 'Highs' I've experienced with Hibs.

I now, no longer worry about what Hibs will give but remember what they have already given. Memories that are dearer to me than ever imaginable.

Just my take on things. Keep faith, trust the club and remember your own good times that no one can ever take away from you.

Here's me enjoying a wonderful holiday with my two grown-up boy's and there partners, I've clicked on dot.net and read this truly horrendous story !

Words can't describe how sad I feel for you my friend, to lose a child at any age must be the worst thing ever.

God bless you and your family.

[Eaststand]

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I'm not one to share much, especially to strangers but after the last week or so I've read a lot of feelings that the 'feel good factor' is dissipating around the club. I can see folks perspective as we've lost our top scorer, not much happening with signings currently, disruptive rumours of Lennon leaving etc etc

That Scottish cup final. The final whistle blew and I cried, like many. The first person I spoke to was my wee boy Alfie (I wasnt to allowed to take him as he was only 3) he shouted 'Daddy won the cup' and sang Glory Glory down the phone. I cried some more. I took him to the parade and we got our photo with the cup.

Saturday 19th November 2016, home vs QOS. Just another game to most but THE game for me. It was Alfie's 1st and only game.

In February of this year, Alfie died suddenly. My own life has changed forever. My whole perspective has changed, forever.

I used to, like many worry and often complain about what Hibs were doing or weren't doing. They were and are a huge part of my life but looking back I think sometimes that attitude has clouded the many 'Highs' I've experienced with Hibs.

I now, no longer worry about what Hibs will give but remember what they have already given. Memories that are dearer to me than ever imaginable.

Just my take on things. Keep faith, trust the club and remember your own good times that no one can ever take away from you.

A very touching post, and you show incredible bravery sharing that story...thank you for that. I can't begin to imagine how this must feel for you and your family, but you have some beautiful memories of Alfie, and those are very very special.

RIP Alfie

GGTTH

[hibbiedon]

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I'm not one to share much, especially to strangers but after the last week or so I've read a lot of feelings that the 'feel good factor' is dissipating around the club. I can see folks perspective as we've lost our top scorer, not much happening with signings currently, disruptive rumours of Lennon leaving etc etc

That Scottish cup final. The final whistle blew and I cried, like many. The first person I spoke to was my wee boy Alfie (I wasnt to allowed to take him as he was only 3) he shouted 'Daddy won the cup' and sang Glory Glory down the phone. I cried some more. I took him to the parade and we got our photo with the cup.

Saturday 19th November 2016, home vs QOS. Just another game to most but THE game for me. It was Alfie's 1st and only game.

In February of this year, Alfie died suddenly. My own life has changed forever. My whole perspective has changed, forever.

I used to, like many worry and often complain about what Hibs were doing or weren't doing. They were and are a huge part of my life but looking back I think sometimes that attitude has clouded the many 'Highs' I've experienced with Hibs.

I now, no longer worry about what Hibs will give but remember what they have already given. Memories that are dearer to me than ever imaginable.

Just my take on things. Keep faith, trust the club and remember your own good times that no one can ever take away from you.

I am so sorry for your loss, this is one of the saddest posts I have ever read and really puts everything into perspective I would like to thank you for sharing your story and although I do not know you I can assure you §that you have my respect and admiration