I agree with much of what you say. However, I disagree with this part. If you have undergone gender reassignment.
It's not just feminist lesbians who want to date females who get called transphobic and the likes. You have people like the male head of the Edinburgh Rape Crisis Centre castigating opposition and objection to his recruitment with attempts to close down the discussion and silence women.
https://www.thetimes.co.uk/article/r...ents-2b9kdvc75
"Mridul Wadhwa, 43, a trans woman and former SNP parliamentary candidate who was appointed chief executive of Edinburgh Rape Crisis in May, made the controversial remarks while speaking on a podcast. While discussing trans-inclusion, discrimination and sexual violence on The Guilty Feminist she said: “Sexual violence happens to bigoted people as well. But these spaces are also for you.
“But if you bring unacceptable beliefs that are discriminatory in nature, we will begin to work with you on your journey of recovery from trauma. But please also expect to be challenged"
Read those words and ponder. An anti feminist, biological male, (could also be described as misogynistic and self entitled), talking about challenging women victims of sexual harm who want a biological female staff member to support them.
Utter madness.