Unbelievable thread.
I would echo the other comments, get out now mate. Nothing to be gained by living together and pretending to be together for her image. Very selfish behaviour, get out and start to enjoy yourself again. All the best.
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13-06-2017 11:59 AM #91
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13-06-2017 12:59 PM #92
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Thanks for all the comment and advice.
Was a big help having "mates" around.
I'm sitting tight for now. Going to look at all possibilities.
First up is 10k walk a day. Was 6k. Ive loads of casual women friends (type of work i did) so I'm going to take them all out one by one-just because I can. Tomorrow night I'm going to a big annual fundraiser ball type thingy (Ive booked a last minute place and taking a lady with me (a friend).
I guess we never know how things will play out. The ability to react positively, whilst never our first instinct in a personal crises, is so important. Hope I'm up for it.
Next I will be needing fashion tips lol.But that's an entirely different thread!!
Kind regards.
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13-06-2017 03:02 PM #94
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Never mind walking 10k. Your next step should be to see a lawyer.
You'll get a half hour chat free, maybe an hour, and you should use that time to establish what you are entitled to in the event of a separation and/or divorce.
I think the rules on how the assets of the marriage are divvied up have changed recently but in my day it included obvious things like house, cars and stuff. But it also included the value of each partners pension. It's not unusual for a pension to be worth as much as if not more than a house!!!!
You need proper advice and you need it as soon as you can get it.Last edited by Jack; 13-06-2017 at 03:04 PM.
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13-06-2017 03:29 PM #95This quote is hidden because you are ignoring this member. Show Quote
If she's the main earner then this may be why she's so keen / willing for the new arrangement. She may even have taken legal advice herself so as to better understand what her options are, and the financial implications of each.#PERSEVERED
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13-06-2017 03:29 PM #96
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13-06-2017 04:38 PM #97This quote is hidden because you are ignoring this member. Show Quote
Please don't.
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13-06-2017 05:58 PM #98This quote is hidden because you are ignoring this member. Show Quote
We spend a lot of our life doing things for other people. This is a situation to do it for you.PM Awards General Poster of The Year 2015, 2016, 2017. Probably robbed in other years
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13-06-2017 09:12 PM #100
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13-06-2017 10:37 PM #101
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This thread has to be a wind up?!
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13-06-2017 11:32 PM #103
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Definitely feels like it has a bit of Irvine Jambo/Kahoonas about it.
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14-06-2017 12:30 AM #104This quote is hidden because you are ignoring this member. Show Quote
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14-06-2017 07:52 AM #105This quote is hidden because you are ignoring this member. Show Quote
Literally.
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14-06-2017 08:27 AM #106This quote is hidden because you are ignoring this member. Show Quote
Champion boxer, 4 degrees, Bollywood star wife.
RIP.PM Awards General Poster of The Year 2015, 2016, 2017. Probably robbed in other years
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14-06-2017 11:24 AM #107
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14-06-2017 05:09 PM #109
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We'll never see his likes again. Will we?
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14-06-2017 06:29 PM #110
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Guys.
This was not a wind up. Seriously.
I understand why some might think that.
I was simply looking for some outside input.
I have a plan now. Due to stuff getting in the way as it inevitably does, I'm prepared to wait to finalise things.
In truth a lot of what has occurred in the last two weeks has been brewing for a long time.
Sometimes I suppose we just ignore what with hindsight appears obvious. Ok its late in the day for me but I'm now facing what i hope is a brighter future (even at me age!!)
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14-06-2017 07:01 PM #111This quote is hidden because you are ignoring this member. Show Quote
1. Is your username really your name?
2. You do realise that this thread is publicly viewable?
I don't imagine you would really want your wife reading this, so you might want to think about at least doing something with your username...
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14-06-2017 07:47 PM #112This quote is hidden because you are ignoring this member. Show Quote
What about the Beyoncé from Niddrie thread ? That was mental.
That's going back a few years :-)No Eternal Reward Shall Forgive Us Now For Wasting The Dawn
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14-06-2017 07:55 PM #113
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If you're seriously putting up with that nonsense from your wife then you need your head looked.
Sorry, but you only have one life and she's taking the absolute piss IMO.
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14-06-2017 09:29 PM #114This quote is hidden because you are ignoring this member. Show QuoteCougars!!!
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14-06-2017 09:42 PM #115
Not sure if this is a windup or not but c'mon tae **** mate, at the very least you need to keep your self respect. She obviously sees you as a prop in her life to be cast away when she no longer has a use for you. You're worth more than that. GTF out pronto and make the best of your hand. It can't be any worse than being her safety net.
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14-06-2017 10:01 PM #116
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15-06-2017 09:33 AM #117
Get her straight to ****.
Get her out the house or yourself out the house asap. Who gives a shiny one what she wants, her right for you to care about her needs went out the window when she told you it was over.
Time for a clean break.PERSEVERE
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To not give up.
To go the distance.
To stop at nothing.
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17-06-2017 05:49 AM #118
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17-06-2017 04:45 PM #119This quote is hidden because you are ignoring this member. Show Quote
I don't for a minute believe the OP is for real but just incase he is..........he better get rid well before he dates anyone else or it'll bite him on the archie. His Mrs is counting on it so she can tell everyone its no her fault.
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17-06-2017 05:36 PM #120
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I'm maybe guilty of taking people at face value, which is no bad thing. I believe that the op is genuine, what's to gain by fabricating such a story ?
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