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I think folk are getting a wee bit dramatic about this incident. The assaulter was wrong and will probably be punished, the lippy guy was wrong and the lippy guy's Dad was wrong but we've had folk talking about it causing a major incident because of the angle of the East and worrying about the effect on kids.
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Thread: Young lad with the burst nose?
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15-02-2013 09:23 AM #121
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15-02-2013 10:48 AM #122
I've just had a chance to read this thread .. and in all honesty probably shouldn't go any near it given the divided opinions and how heated it has been ... but ..
I won't comment on the incident itself as I never witnessed it and it wouldn't be fair to pass judgement on either party .. but the thread itself has thrown up quite a few interesting points for debate.
Firstly, violence is wrong. Lets make that clear from the outset.
In the past I would have had no qualms about "skelping" someone for being mouthy, but it was still wrong and I'll make no attempt to defend it.
However, publicly abusing someone (for whatever reason) is just as wrong and could, depending on the individual, cause varying levels of mental anguish.
If I was at a game and my son started to verbally abuse someone, there would be no need for them to get "lamped" because they'd already be on the end of a lashing from my tongue. Irrespective of your views on peoples behaviour you don't verbally abuse them in a public place .. in the same way that irrespective of the abuse you receive you do not hit anyone.
I am also pretty sure that there will have been quite a few of us that have been victims (be it however little) of the anti-social behaviour and lack of respect from youngsters today. Maybe it's just us older ones, to whom the social changes are more apparent, that get wound up the most by it .. but I'd be lying if the thought of "skelping" a youngster (late teens) for their "anti-social behaviour" had never crossed my mind.
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15-02-2013 11:42 AM #123This quote is hidden because you are ignoring this member. Show QuoteEvery gimmick hungry yob,
Digging gold from rock and roll
Grabs the mic to tell us,
He'll die before he's sold.
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15-02-2013 11:54 AM #124This quote is hidden because you are ignoring this member. Show Quote
Not in my day !
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15-02-2013 12:15 PM #125
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Outrageous! Just imagine if a player came into the crowd and skelped a supporter for being lippy?* And I’m just thinking of our own players!!! There would never be a player on the pitch!! And after all the bans we might not be able to field a team for a few seasons!
If the older guy cant control himself without resorting to violence as the first resort then he should avoid situations where that might be a possibility; like in public places and definitely at football matches. He should also seek medical help.
* Manchester United's Eric Cantona has been fined £20,000 and banned from playing football over his kung fu-style attack on a fan.
The club has relegated the French star striker to the bench for nine months for lashing out at a fan in the front row during a game against Crystal Palace.Space to let
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15-02-2013 12:33 PM #126This quote is hidden because you are ignoring this member. Show Quote
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Mikey is the real rod :)
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15-02-2013 01:09 PM #130
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15-02-2013 06:16 PM #131
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15-02-2013 06:55 PM #132
I know nothing about the incident that took place so I'm not going to comment on it.
What I will say however is kids / youths are far cheekier than we were at the same age.
The cheek I hear kids giving their elders is nothing short of terrible however they know will get away with it because the law is on their side.
They can scratch keys up and down someone's car but if the owner shouts or heaven forbid lifts his hands then they will end up in court and be dealt with.
When I was a laddie we had a village bobby and if he caught you doing something wrong he would give you a hard kick in the backside and that would be the end of it. Did we go for Police brutality? Did we f*** because we knew we were in the wrong. Did we tell our parents? Did we f*** or we would have got another kick up the backside.
I'm not suggesting adults form vigilante groups assaulting cheeky kids but they would never have got away with it in ma day.
We're doomed a tell ye.
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15-02-2013 08:22 PM #133
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15-02-2013 08:44 PM #134
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The reality is much more simple.
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15-02-2013 09:20 PM #135This quote is hidden because you are ignoring this member. Show Quote
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15-02-2013 09:24 PM #136
and still it runs (the thread, not his nose)...is there no end to this investigation into the nose bending fugitive as he attempts to escape justice at the hands of the .net vigilante mob..its like an never ending game of cluedo with the cast of .net being the clueless contestants and the culprit hiding in the conservatory behind colonel mustard with the candlestick in his bloodsoaked hands..
it appears to be my turn so i'll make a guess based on the fact the culprit always returns to the scene of the crime..
ehhh..is it blackpool hibs with a knuckle duster in the dining room?
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15-02-2013 09:24 PM #137This quote is hidden because you are ignoring this member. Show Quote
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Plenty of people get punched for nothing.
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15-02-2013 09:27 PM #139This quote is hidden because you are ignoring this member. Show Quote
where have you been?...i waited for half an hour at the bike sheds for you..
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15-02-2013 10:13 PM #140This quote is hidden because you are ignoring this member. Show Quote
What I am saying is that youngsters get away with a helluva lot these days.
I suppose if you caught kids scratching your car or tanning your windows you would go out and congratulate them and give them a bar of chocolate.
Our society is much worse now than when I was a kid and I think it will get worse before it gets better.
When I was younger older guys used to say we don't know how lucky we were not having to do National Service, telling us that would have made us better people and brought us into line. I thought I would have hated it and it was barbaric but now I can see where the old guys were coming from.
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16-02-2013 05:09 AM #141This quote is hidden because you are ignoring this member. Show Quote
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Very good point!!!
If a fight does escalate, the club may take the viewpoint that the standing area doesnt work and take a more authoritarian stance again. I genuinely wouldnt go to the games if I was told to sit down and it was enforced by security and culture around me...
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16-02-2013 08:36 AM #143This quote is hidden because you are ignoring this member. Show Quote
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I also share your belief that some form of national service might have been of help in teaching kids manners and respect of others (it was probably my saving grace).
The problem in my opinion lies with parenting. Too many parents leave discipline out of their responsibilities and expect society in particular schools to deal with the problem. This can never work due to at least 2 reasons. 1. Schools are there to educate and not discipline and spend too much valuable time having to correct the mistakes of lackluster parenting when they should be teaching the kids. 2. What's right and what's wrong is about values and this needs to be instilled at a pre school age to be of any value and for strangers to be allowed to discipline other peoples kids is a very dangerous development. We've had this in the part and it leaves kids open to all sorts of abuse as we've witnessed in the past.
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16-02-2013 11:16 AM #145
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Here's my version of events.
Angry man *walks out*
Punched Boys mate; dinny bother coming back ya prick.
Angry man; what the **** you saying. In the direction of punched boy and punched boys mate.
Punched boy; *stands up* I never said ****all to you. In aggressive tone.
Angry man; shut the **** up. Angry man punches punched boy.
Seen this type of **** a million times.
Really, who cares. As for the namby pamby on here. Violence can, and does, sort people out and keep them from being ***** in future.
The witch hunt on here could see this guy get charged and possibly lose their job all because of a heat of the argument moment with a couple of cheeky idiots.
Jesus H Christ.
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16-02-2013 01:27 PM #147
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Long and short of it, boys handed himself in to the club and is to meet with the police on Monday.
Thanks for everyone's help.
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16-02-2013 01:48 PM #148This quote is hidden because you are ignoring this member. Show Quote
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If I was accused of being a part-timer by some callow youth I would merely give a cheery rejoinder, to the effect that even part-time support, was more generous than the display merited, adding - young fellow m'lad. Such is the way of the West stand.
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