Unbelievable thread.
I would echo the other comments, get out now mate. Nothing to be gained by living together and pretending to be together for her image. Very selfish behaviour, get out and start to enjoy yourself again. All the best.
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Unbelievable thread.
I would echo the other comments, get out now mate. Nothing to be gained by living together and pretending to be together for her image. Very selfish behaviour, get out and start to enjoy yourself again. All the best.
Thanks for all the comment and advice.
Was a big help having "mates" around.
I'm sitting tight for now. Going to look at all possibilities.
First up is 10k walk a day. Was 6k. Ive loads of casual women friends (type of work i did) so I'm going to take them all out one by one-just because I can. Tomorrow night I'm going to a big annual fundraiser ball type thingy (Ive booked a last minute place and taking a lady with me (a friend).
I guess we never know how things will play out. The ability to react positively, whilst never our first instinct in a personal crises, is so important. Hope I'm up for it.
Next I will be needing fashion tips lol.But that's an entirely different thread!!
Kind regards.
Never mind walking 10k. Your next step should be to see a lawyer.
You'll get a half hour chat free, maybe an hour, and you should use that time to establish what you are entitled to in the event of a separation and/or divorce.
I think the rules on how the assets of the marriage are divvied up have changed recently but in my day it included obvious things like house, cars and stuff. But it also included the value of each partners pension. It's not unusual for a pension to be worth as much as if not more than a house!!!!
You need proper advice and you need it as soon as you can get it.
Time for the straight red card.
This thread has to be a wind up?!
The OP is clearly at it. Thread totally smells of cow pat.
Guys.
This was not a wind up. Seriously.
I understand why some might think that.
I was simply looking for some outside input.
I have a plan now. Due to stuff getting in the way as it inevitably does, I'm prepared to wait to finalise things.
In truth a lot of what has occurred in the last two weeks has been brewing for a long time.
Sometimes I suppose we just ignore what with hindsight appears obvious. Ok its late in the day for me but I'm now facing what i hope is a brighter future (even at me age!!)
All in going to say to you is:
1. Is your username really your name?
2. You do realise that this thread is publicly viewable?
I don't imagine you would really want your wife reading this, so you might want to think about at least doing something with your username...
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Not sure if this is a windup or not but c'mon tae **** mate, at the very least you need to keep your self respect. She obviously sees you as a prop in her life to be cast away when she no longer has a use for you. You're worth more than that. GTF out pronto and make the best of your hand. It can't be any worse than being her safety net.
Get her straight to ****.
Get her out the house or yourself out the house asap. Who gives a shiny one what she wants, her right for you to care about her needs went out the window when she told you it was over.
Time for a clean break.
His Mrs followed him and took loads of pictures. She showed them to family and friends and is now filling for divorce because he's a cheat. She is taking him for everything including the family home which he will need to move out off but continue to pay for as he's the main bread winner.
I don't for a minute believe the OP is for real but just incase he is..........he better get rid well before he dates anyone else or it'll bite him on the archie. His Mrs is counting on it so she can tell everyone its no her fault.
I'm maybe guilty of taking people at face value, which is no bad thing. I believe that the op is genuine, what's to gain by fabricating such a story ?