Originally Posted by
Hermit Crab
The signs all point to her doing the dirty but you can't be 100% with conclusive evidence.
Do you know the guys name?
Does he have Facebook/Twitter that could maybe give you some clues?
Whats the name of the pub that they frequent every Friday?
Is it close to his gaff, or in town etc?
Maybe some of the cooler heads on here could do some surveillance for you, that way you don't have to be near them and possibly get spotted, then the games up and it could makes things 10x worse with a public confrontation?
A private investigator is an option, I've always fancied myself as a Magnum type. :greengrin
Seriously though I hope you get things sorted as I know the feelings you are referring too and its not nice at all. If you can prove it you'll get her on infidelity and get a divorce within 2 years and take her for everything which, if I'm honest serves her right for doing the dirty.
Please keep updating as this is really intriguing and fair play to you for posting about this. It must have taken balls mate.